Are there others leading the double-life? Family man & Candid Man?

[videocandidwalkerupskirter]

I am an upskirter, so I cross that line a little

tx

[be123]

I am an upskirter, so I cross that line a little

Yes, but as I said: Only a little. Nothing to worry about. Come on, there are much more other sites in the WWW where you could worry to be a member, or worry to be a real pervert
Stay cool! Everything is fine.

How do you feel?

[switches]

WOW...... Where do I begin! Well 1st to Mark217 Dude you have way to much of a conscience to be a "perv" or "bad person"

Here is my deal. I kept TCB 1,000 miles away from my wife for years but my downfall was the video of "19 yo hottie w/ the perfect ass" That Ill share here in a sec. I use quite a few of the tips that have been listed here to keep things from getting seen. Like locking my computer w/ a password, Making up fake file names like "pictures for my wholesalere" "knife pics" etc..., using external hard drives, making sub sub folders in a harmles looking file etc...etc...

Well like someone said we all get caught leaving the video in the vcr. Well thats basiclly how my wife caught me THE FIRST TIME.(being careless) I had been being quite sketchy for a few months. Like texting other girls, staying out all night b/c of a cocaine problem, and may other things thats just to much to list.Well of course this behavior caused me to get more and more carless. So anyway I stayed up & out all night one given night playing poker doing coke at my best friends house (i have 2 girls n a wife at home what the fuck was i thinking) So about 9 in the morning I get a call and my wife says in the most hurt and teethe clinching tone "who the fuck is this girl in the video on something called the candid board" Guys I was then and there for the 1st time speechless, scared, frantic, pissed, hurt for her sake, & literally terrified! At that point all i could think was how much did she see which video was it, could I probaly lie myself out of it, what else had she seen. Well I took a deep breathe and said I guess I have no option but tell you the truth., and that I did. I told her I met this chick at my store and she wanted modeling pics and I told the girl hell ill do it I have always wanted to be a model photograper. So I told her the whole story about going to a hotel w/ this girl and taking vids and pictures. THEN She hung up on me. Needless to say I was terrified of going home or could i go home now? was this the straw that broke the camels back? Well eventually I went home pulled her into the bedroom locked the door and swore to God to here that nothing went on sexually between that girl and myself. Then after I got up off the floor from begging and vowing my honesty and sincerity, I said probably the 2 stupidist things ive ever said to her. 1st was I really do like taking pics and hell alot of people do it for a living. She looked at me like I had lost my mind. Then the 2nd thing just plopped right out my mouth w/out my mouth even working I said" YOU GOTTA ADMITT SHE DID HAVE A NICE ASS" Yes guys I said that, and I was smiling b/c I was like wtf did i just say. Well that turned out to be the best thing I had said the whole time b/c she started to laugh like I cant fucking believe you just said that but from my honest begging and explaining that nothing but taking pictures went on in that room. she new I seriously had only committed the crime of being stupid and taking some 19 yo to a hotel for pictures. Then slowly over the next few days we worked alot out. She waited til later that week to test me. Because out of no where and in a normal tone she said can I trust you I said yes then she asked me seriously is that the only girl youve ever done anything like that w/ then I just looked at her and said "honestly? no." Ive taken pictures and vids w/ a couple other girls but emphasized yes it was wrong but I never layed a finger on any of them.(this was true as well) She said well atleast I know you can still be truthful w/ me b/c I saw videos of 2 other girls and wanted to see if you would lie to me. Then she said you need to get that video of me on our daughters bed off of there, b/c any of her friends would know exactly who i was and where we were. Well at this point I realized she had deffinantly seen every thread I started. I also realized she wasnt to terribly pissed about me posting her.

So I have since sought help for my coke addiction.and for about a year I was in every NA meeting I could find. I still relapse here and ther but I dont give up. I try as hard as i can to stay clean. I have a wonderful wife that truely loves me to put up w/ all the shit Ive done. We are great now. Its funny now when I ask to video her B/C shes like "you get my face on that and I will brake your fucking camera", So at least I know she really doesnt mind me posting her vids. I think she probably read the ton of great comments on her vids n pics by all you guys and enjoyed the attention and also saw that the members here are very kind for the most part & that tcb is not porn and the members are really into sharing what they have worked on and getting and giving feedback shows the hobby of this site.

Now we have never talked about the random candid,beach,or voyuer pictures. I kinda woder if she has seen them. b/c I really didnt start doing the beach and candid posts til after our ordeal. I would really feel acquard if she opproached me on on pics i have taken or like random videos of at walmart or the beach. I think i worry more about that than I do anything. b/c unless you truely truely understand the thrill of say taking close up beach vids/pics of random chicks it would look a bit stalkerish or perverted.

Well I added way more info here than I had planned but.... ummmm.....yeah Id say I kinda lead a double life as well!

So my personal tip to the fellow "Double Lifers" is..... NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, EVER, GET CARELESS!!!

[iwonderwhtupherskirt]

yupp make that two of us my faince knows i do it and also helps me sometimes (0:

[be123]

Scary story switches. Glad this story didn't had a bad end.

In the end it is maybe better when your wife finds your TCB posts or interests instead some hardcore porn...
Okay, for the first moment there would not be much difference in the reaction of the girl, you still can tell her, that you are only a little pervert
Not looking at gang bang scenes...

Useing passwords: Are your wifes not suspicious what is on your computer when you do that?

[Yanshi]

Well I'm sure anyone that has read my post know I'm sort of a double lifer. I have a wife and 2 girls - almost teens (shudder). I've been on the candid board going on 5 years now. My wife sort of knows I take pictures of the hot ladies I see and such. In fact at the beach she will point out a few female and then some male guys. Which I quickly take snaps of also. She likes to send the pictures of the hunks to her lady co-workers back at work. I don't know if she knows HOW many pictures I take or such. She does get tired of me snapping shots at times. As she will say -- ok enough pictures or such. In those cases I walk and shoot and not stop. When your with kids you get some "security" while doing pictures to the downside of not getting to follow that hot chic or such.

[switches]

Scary story switches. Glad this story didn't had a bad end.

In the end it is maybe better when your wife finds your TCB posts or interests instead some hardcore porn...
Okay, for the first moment there would not be much difference in the reaction of the girl, you still can tell her, that you are only a little pervert
Not looking at gang bang scenes...

Useing passwords: Are your wifes not suspicious what is on your computer when you do that?

Well she knows and doesnt mind me skimming porn here and there so I tell her I dont want the kids to accidently see it. You would have to know her to understand the next part of the password scenerio. She is too proud(for lack of a better refrence) to actually ask me for my password to check up on me. She would rather catch me slipping like she did when the shit hit the fan. She IS deffinantly more clever than I give her credit for tho!

[scratchy]

She IS deffinantly more clever than I give her credit for tho!

all wifes are my friend.

[be123]

Well she knows and doesnt mind me skimming porn here and there so I tell her I dont want the kids to accidently see it. You would have to know her to understand the next part of the password scenerio. She is too proud(for lack of a better refrence) to actually ask me for my password to check up on me. She would rather catch me slipping like she did when the shit hit the fan. She IS deffinantly more clever than I give her credit for tho!

Yeah, that makes sense with the password.
I don't have one. I do not hide my pictures.
They are not linked from my desktop, but also not hidden in the system files.
From time to time my wife points out girls too who look nice, unfortunatly I do not have a camera with me all the time

[baggerdude]

hello

Well i am. a greenhat on this site, the main reason why i did not post any pictures here from my hunting is that my wife did catch me, not only she found out that i made pics from girls on the street( i had a Canon Ixus with two different Scandisk memory cards, and when i put the pictures from the tourist memory cards at my notebook somehow the pictures from the hunting memory cards came in the same folder, so we were checking the churches from her city, east Europe, and there the pictures came from all those perfect girls with sexy asses!).

After our marriage we visit my brother in South Europe, i always eat to much there so i said lets go to the beach and i will go running I had my Nikon D50 in the trunk of the rented car, we found a spot at the beach, i did run back to the car took my Nikon D50, found a good spot where some girls were laying and start shooting, not even the best girls.
Untill i hear my name.......my wife screaming on a crowded beach......
Ok she catch me so we broke up at the beach, she called my sister in law who picked my wife up, and i thought, ok she caught me, lets continue shooting!, and i did shoot after it 2 perfect girls.

Now we are 14 months further, the weather here is perfect, planning to sent my Nikon D50 to a girl in east Europe who will make pictures from girls on the beach for me, bought a new panasonic FP 3?, which is recomended on this site, made some pics with it, but for on the beach it is not so perfect. And last week bought a new Nikon coolpixP100, today i was hunting at the beach and made some great pics with the new camera however when i checked my pictures, i did only found 1 picture.....at the moment busy reading the manual....

My wife knows that i was today and yesterday again at excursion.....she is sick and also has Sunalergion(close to albino), but she loves me too much.......
I really get crazy when it is summer i always try to find a way to sneak out and check the beaches, still waiting for a camera with separate LCD screen and a remote control for taking pics. Already thinking how i can get my wife asleep during daytime. Yeah i know i am bad!.
Just became member again from beachvoy and that is really my thing(ofcourse i was also member from thonghound, enriques beach,xposing,nngirls) and i just like to see it.

No kids yet.

I work in the offshore, in the past i did not lock my laptop and she checked everything, since 1 year i have a password at the laptop. I have about 3 external hard drives and most of them are loaded with girls in bikini

So to be short, my wife knows it, does not like it, but somehow she respect my way and does not choose the highway