Do you ever discuss candids with friends or co-workers?

**Ocelot** · September 16th, 2008

Originally Posted by easylabor

but yeah I have told one of my friends a while ago about the pics I took on halloween and let him sign on with my username but that was before I got really involved.

ANYONE that knew me would be really freaked out and probably not want to know me any longer if they saw the kind of shit I posted here... the only appreciation I get for my "skills" are from you, my fellow perves. I know I am not amazing or anything but it is a difficult hobby!

Dude, easylabor, I think you are mucho wrong about this. When I was younger, I was afraid to say anything to anyone (I felt like the only perv in high school, looking up skirts on the stairways). It turns out that half of the guys at my school were doing the same thing (one of my female friends told me- she always wore shorts under her skirt because she was aware of all the peering eyes).

When you talk about it with other people, particularly people you know in real life (like your trusted friends), it seems less strange. Like me, you will probably find that your friends are excited by the type of stuff we like, even if they don't enjoy it as much as we do. It's still sexy stuff, even if it isn't a person's flavor.

**Ocelot** · September 16th, 2008

Originally Posted by Ted Thermopolis

I'd like to discuss with friends, but... that's where TCB comes into play!

I had a chance once to "come out of the closet" so to speak once though. Me and my buddy were at a friends house waiting for him to eat and get dressed before heading out to the bar. While we were watching TV, his little sister who was a senior in high school yelled to our buddy that she was going to take a shower, and for him to use the bathroom if he had to.

So me and my buddy went outside to wait for our friend and smoke a cigarrette, and we started talking about kristen. Now, we had always talked about how hot our friends sister was and joked about banging her, but never went any further than that. While we were outside smoking, my buddy says: Dude, we should go peek in the window at kristen in the shower. I laugh, thinking nothing of it. Next thing I know, my buddy says he has to take a piss and starts walking around the side of the house. I say, dude you aren't really going to look in the window at her, are you? He says yeah, serious as ever, and asks me to look out for him. He was gone for like a minute. He came back and we got off the topic of kristen until later that night, when he says told me that he couldn't see anything.

Unbeknownst to him was that a few months before that night I had actually waited in the woods behind my friend's house early one morning for the bathroom lights to come on. I got the show of my life until the window got too steamy. Almost got caught too.

Point of the story being that I had a chance to discuss my voyeurism hobby with one of my best friends. But I view him as a casual voyeur, or opportunistic voyeur I guess. I'm not so sure he would have reacted well to me telling him that I've spent hours upon hours finding voyeur spots and shooting at tanning salons and gym locker rooms. I think that most men, when given the chance to see a hot naked girl, will put morals to the side. But there are few like us who actually pursue and hunt for a good show.

Holy crap Ted- I'm pretty sure your friend was trying to tell you something and you totally missed it.

#1. Even if a person isn't into voyeur, looking at a naked, hot, girl is still going to turn people on. You really had nothing to be embarassed about peeping the sister with your friend.

#2. Imagine that you did not have the opportunity to wait outside of that girl's window: how badly would you have wanted to watch her shower? I have a feeling that you chickened out of the opportunity that day because you already got to see her naked once. Your friend had yet to view the goods, and he wasn't going to let his embarassment over peeping in front of you get in his way: he went and checked out her nakedness.

#3. If your friend was the type of person who would give a voyeur a guilt trip for spying on others, then he wouldn't have taken a look himself. I guarentee you that he got to see plenty while he was at that window. If you would not have chickened out he would have told you the truth (but then again, you would have been able to see for yourself).

Ted, you still have an opportunity to talk with your friend about this incident. Tell him, "remember that time when you watched what's-her-name taking a shower? The reason I didn't go with you is that I had already watched her some other time. I love seeing stuff like that." Dude will probably tell you that he likes it to, and them BAM. Partner in crime (no pun intended). You guys can go off and do that partner shooting that they were talking about in another thread.

**WitchfinderGeneral** · October 19th, 2008

I have discussed with friends, my hobby, they've tried it out and we've traded some stuff. My stuff usually comes out better, but then again my stuff itsn't that good to begin with.